Giving your partner one orgasm is cause for celebration, but what if I told you there’s a possibility you can give your partner multiple orgasms in a short period of time?
With that being said, let’s consider one little factor: Women can have multiple orgasms in short periods of time, whereas men are sometimes limited in this department due to their refractory periods. In other words, men may need a timeout before going for round two, that’s not the case with women.
Let’s consider one more little factor before moving on: Just because women can orgasm more than once does not mean that they will, or that they want to. Check in with her to see if she wants to orgasm more than once, and if she does, please proceed with the following suggestions.
Make sure she’s okay with another orgasm.
Like I stated a sentence ago, make sure she’s okay with another orgasm. Some women like to be held after sex. Some women like an encore. Know your woman before proceeding.
Also, some women are very sensitive down under after having one orgasm. This will lead her to want a different experience than the first time around. For instance, if the first round was rough, she may want something slow and steady the second time around. Don’t judge her for whatever decision she makes.
If she does want to proceed, start with building sexual tension.
Right after she orgasms, her body is getting ready to begin its resting stage after sex. In other words, she’ll need a reboot. Start getting her aroused the second she gives you the okay.
Now, when I tell you to start getting her aroused, I don’t mean to start it up full force. Don’t stick your penis in her right away. Don’t put your tongue down there right away. And don’t put your fingers down under right away.
Instead, try starting with a light massage of her lower back. Venture in and start rubbing her upper thighs. Really allow her to relax and enjoy the fact that she just had an orgasm, but get ready to give her another. Then, after a few minutes, start to kiss her, on her mouth and all over her body. Really try to read her body language. When the moments right, you’ll know, and that’s when she’ll get happy all over again.
Keep in mind that if you’re too focused on going right for the vagina after she’s already had an orgasm, she may not get aroused. Women don’t need long breaks, but the vagina is very sensitive after orgasm, so give it a few minutes and really hone in on what her body is trying to tell you.
Pay attention to her breasts and butt.
To arouse her, you don’t always have to go for the genitals. Instead, try kissing her breasts and butt, and any other non-genital areas for that matter.
Add a little flavor to the mixture and whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Or, if she likes when you talk dirty to her, try doing that.
The idea is to keep her in a semi-aroused state while she relaxes so that you don’t have to start from scratch when you go in for the second orgasm.
Go to the genitals. Now.
As I stated above, giving her a massage is the right way to start. Then pay attention to her breasts and butt. Then whisper sweet nothings in her ear or talk dirty to her. Blah, blah, blah.
Now is the time to start focusing on the genitals. Make sure you go slow at first, as she may still be sensitive. Start with a light touch of your finger or your tongue. Move your finger or your tongue in a circular motion until she starts to respond to you. Then, start putting a little bit more pressure on her. Pick up the pace and intensify the moment.
If you do this, she’ll be ready to go in no time.
Use other routes to intensify the orgasm.
If she’s still sensitive and not ready for you to go on the genitals like I just suggested, try choosing different erogenous zones. Basically, all you have to do is tend to areas of her body like her neck, ears, and toes. These happen to be the most seductive parts of her body, and if you’re going to get a response from anywhere other than her lady parts, it’s going to be from touching her in these areas.
Switch up your sex positions.
She may have her favorite position and you may have yours but switching it up occasionally will keep her on her toes. Try the doggy-style position or put her on top of you and let her take charge. This way, her G-spot will be targeted, and orgasm will be much easier and much faster to acquire.
Try something different – kick it up a notch.
Some couples are reluctant to switch things up this much, but let me tell you, these two suggestions could help her reach her second orgasm much faster.
Stimulate her nipples
Some studies have stated that some women have occasionally orgasmed through intense nipple stimulation. All you have to do is start by tracing her nipples very lightly and very slowly, in circular motions. Once she starts to respond, kick up the pace and build pressure. You can do this with your fingers at first and then switch over to your tongue. Do some light sucking while you’re at it.
If you’re feeling adventurous, try stimulating the area between her vagina and her anus. Be sure to do this with your tongue.
Some women don’t like this, so check in with her first.
By Jenny Lyn